udontknowme SG my mom really likes to talk shit she just told some random friend of hers over the phone 'my eldest child (me) hates to make friends' nonono...i dun mind this statement. not as much as others she makes... but im sick and tired of her talking shit about her kids to her friends like....sometimes she misses someone, a friend of hers... she'll call the person and say 'HI! my child really misses u and so im calling u now' these 2 obviously dun sound bad at all lah but im not gibing anymore assemples FRIK!
the Bear SG sound like your mom is kinda... uhh.. using you guys are a 'reason' (which no one will believe) for her actions? maybe she's not comfortable with her own feelings?
^tamago^ SG the second example is really unique. but sometimes they talk without regard to our feelings like the first one.
LazerLordz SG well, I can't help you with the Mom problem, but for post stalkers, if they get on your nerves, just cool off and ignore them.
pokkagreentea SG my mom does the same thing too sometimes. I feel so helpless but when she goes too far, I just tell her to stop doing that 'cause it will hurt my feelings. Eventually, she understands and she seldom reveals my weaknesses to her friends. Dunno abt yr mom and but try to speak up for urself.
kiseki SG mums are like that . my mum behave like that too . especially when i was younger . er but not the 2nd statement la . that is abit .. *pats udon*
oOprinceOo SG yea. lol . actually we kena design very funny lrh. our ears shld b allowed to auto close whn we wan
Chris1988 SG i think i used to experienced something similar when i was younger.. mum: eh my boy boy score A for maths leh. your son how ah? mum friend: oh my ah boy say he score distinction leh. your ah boy score A? buay pai liao la. mum: *proceeds on to another topic* *hangs up the phone* mum: BOY AH! WHY ***** SON SCORE DISTINCTION YOU ONLY SCORE "A" AH?! boy: ...