First of all, why use the term 'solo kia'?
The real actual meaning of solo kia mean that one do every single
thing himself without the thinking of other... In other word,
chiong alone.
Well, for your case is that you are neglected and not you want to
solo yourself.
And, loneliness isn't something easy to handle.
And, being alone all the time, being quiet all the time, isn't
cool. You watch too much shows...
Teamwork spirit. Isn't this the most common way to success? Solo
kia won't stand out.
For studies, well, you will have more time on hands as you don't
have much friends. And you may push yourself hard in studies in
order to gain attention as you are lonely... but still, why the
hard way to overcome your feelings?
For real friendship reason. If such normal things happen and
friendship just crush like that, hmm... you sure you can call that
real friends?
Well... it's all your choice... It's your path... Many people have
come across this problem... Many have solve it, many have
not...
It's depend on your thinking...
Just make sure that, you won't regret whatever path you take.