'I only think of you as a friend'

CannyOng SG

Sad to say,u have not met the right gal and sad to say again. very good looking and filthy rich will not gurantee the gal u want to be! Wink

CannyOng SG

Since u want to continue the courtship. Do u know her area of interest? Maybe u can start working on tht area...

tianxibi SG

Hmm... Actually having almost the same problem as TS nor...
Sometimes the girl likes you,but due to some reason,she really cant be with u... Sad
For my case,my relationship with the girl in question,spanned 5 years...She knows how i feel for her since the first year already,but due to some bad decision making by both parties we never got together...
Now she's available again,and we have always been real close,i hold her at the waist,we go drinking to get drunk together and she trusts me to never bully or mistreat her...but we still cant get together because she cant forget the ex-bf (btw,i was the reason that they met in the first place somemore),she even ask me if she shd get back with him...HA~~HA... Crying or Very sad
What i am actually trying to say is that,dun think of the worst case scenarios everytime...(of course u shdn't be too optimistic lah)
Rejecting you does not mean she does not like you,if she really doesn't like you at all,you wudn't even be buddies...She admits dat she likes me too,just dat i feel for her 10 times more,sometimes,she really cant accept you at the point of time,she has something else other than u on her mind...Or she just likes being single...
It's really a bad case of right person at the wrong time...So TS shdn't be sad,if u give up,dun regret.But if u dun,know that it cud go on for very long and be unfruitful...But the most important thing is,Never ever blame anyone,including yourself,for the outcome,cause u chose the path urself...No one forced u...did they?

dragoncloud SG

Crying or Very sad Seems like you've been through a lot worse...Haiz Neutral

jojobeach SG

DragonCloud,

I hate to be a wet blanket here.

But honestly, don't you think it's a better idea to win her over after you are done with your NS ?

Let's be realistic, NS is not a good time to be in any bf/gf relationship.
If you dream about a girl patiently and lovingly waiting for your ROD. You are being too much of a romantic. Those cases does happen, but very rarely.

Starting a relationship prior to your NS is just checking yourself into heartbreak hotel.

A relationship with a female is A LOT of effort.
By the time you are done with BMT, you won't have much left to give her.

So why not just remain friends, and if she is still available after you ROD.
THEN go after her , and may the force be with you.

CannyOng SG

Jojobeach advise is good.. Pls heed the advise Wink

oOprinceOo SG

yea rite. lol ns is something like 2 full years... i guess Laughing

jojobeach SG

yah ... doesn't matter if it is 2 years or 5 years.

How long since you hit puberty ?
Well, you didn't die without a gf during those years did you ?
So why it became such a life or death issue all of a sudden ?

Uncertain SG

I got rejected by a girl back in my JC days. But now after quite a while, the girl who rejected me talks to me again but we are just friends now. Exchange a bit of concern here and there so as to maintain the friendship.

Therefore, friendship doesn't really ends upon confession. It really ends upon your reluctance to continue the friendship.

dragoncloud SG

Its not a problem of gf or not... Neutral just realized that my school life is ending soon... might not hav much time to see her in future...

Just wan her to know how i feel... not asking her to be my gf(now) since exam period...just wanna know how she feel about me... Confused

So she only think of me as a friend

Nadare SG

its the feeling ba..

Zarks SG

People say " THe most torturing moment is that when you sit beside the one you love but you know you cant have them"

Lets cry together T_T

ispyyy SG

Youth is power sia...
There is always alot for a youth to explore...
She may think of u as a friend for now...
But no1 can predict the future...
Even, if she agreed to be with u , u may feel tat she is not the one after a few years...
Life is like tat... when it will come, it will come... when it comes, just accept it... And because of the above sentence, life is always favourable for youth like u...

At least, tat is wat I always tell myself....
Laughing

dreamykite SG

Just be normal lor. Gals changes their mind very fast. Currently she must be concentrating on her studies and do not want to talk about relationship.

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