january SG any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also.
EarlNeo SG Since it is Ex.... any action on ur part will mislead her one way or another. She was doing ok b4 she met u, I am sure she will do just as well without u. Even if she need saving, that person isnt u.... if u worry that no one is there to save her, why dun u intro her to me... i am sure she will never need to bother u again...
Cool-gal SG pls... do her a super big favour. dun contact her. u will only add on her sorrow and misery. she needs time to get over yet u keep contacting her.. u r the cause for her mental stress, n adding weights to it..
TheGoodEarth SG hmmm .... she is like a switch - on and off. maybe a switchboard will help her career?
january SG she contacted me one leh. if i dun take her call. what if she feels hurt even more? how can i noe whether avoding her or keeping contact is a better way? nobody knows mah.
jojobeach SG Don't bluff yourself lah. You just want to think you are very important , that's all. Once the relationship ended. It is best to cut all contacts to let the healing begin. No wound will heal if you keep picking at it. That is why you put handyplast to seal off the wound. Same applies to emotional wound. If you want to maintain contact. Do it AFTER everyone has moved on.
kensongs SG Stop contacting her, at least in the meantime. It’s best that you disappear from her life and let time heal her wounds. Someday you two might become friends again but not now.
