Breaking up and the Next Relationship

Dr Who SG

Breaking up/Separating with a loved one........how would it affect the next relationship?

would it be easier the next round as claimed here?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVW1-vi3MqM

Will you forget your first love once you enter the next relationship?

Dr Who SG

It took me one year just to accept that I had broken up for good........believe it or not......

How long you take to accept the inevitable fact, and then move along?

Guardx SG

if you backup this will never happen.
always be prepared

TheGoodEarth SG

You must break up more often. That way the interval will be shorten to less than one year.

Seven_Dragon SG

i am a sentimental person...
it took me years to forget my ex... Crying or Very sad
it's so hard to forget someone you loved before...

selfobliged SG

yah…usually it takes about a year to move on. First few months after the break up was tough.

ghast. SG

some people can never forget the taste of first love after all the first cut is the deepest. lots of people have their next partners, very similar to their ex cause it’s a familarity we all seek but we are just not conscious that those types are the wrong ones.

ShrodingersCat SG

as long as you don't get attached if you haven't forgotten ur ex yet
its ok

AndrewPKYap SG

AFAIAMC the so called "rules" are just a load of rubbish... you need to solve the underlying problems (mostly your own) and not simply follow a set of rules...

"as long as you are not with someone when you have not gotten over your ex" is rubbish as well as good advice... meaning, it is useless because it depends on the person, the situation, the circumstances whether this rule should be applied.

ShrodingersCat SG

isn't a rule, its an opinion

secondly, anything can be useful or rubbish depending on person, situation and circumstances and how its applied.

AndrewPKYap SG

The opinion is “It is OK” the rule is “as long as…”

ShrodingersCat SG

dont let other people's semantics rule you. this is an opinion too.

AndrewPKYap SG

That is an "advice" based on some private rule book. Laughing An opinion is, "It is my opinion that people should not let other people's semantics rule them because...."

oOprinceOo SG

took me 9 mths if i aint wrong Cool

AndrewPKYap SG

so long the baby already come out Laughing

de_middle SG

can never forget but must learn to accept new love when it comes along Very Happy

Zarks SG

nex time prepare 2 or 3 gals in ur list..

once the 1st gal is out, u straight away go to 2nd gal..

if 2nd gal out, u go 3rd gal in ur list..

no problem

no mental issue

YOu feeel secure

You feel great !

AndrewPKYap SG

Like that hor… you will turn the potential break ups into reality easily… without spares, you will tend to make it work… with spares, you run with any small problem… and also it is a very obnoxious concept… plat play like that, not scared of karma meh?