My bf and i have broke up for half a year. This was my
story.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=236155&page=0
For those who are lazy to read, to summarise, he was married and
seperated, and asked me to wait for him for completion of his
separation, which would be due by end march.
During this period of time, we barely met. manytimes, he agreed to
meet, but last min had to cancel. and manytimes i asked to meet, he
turned down saying he was busy
i waited for him, but when the deadline was approaching, he
continued to be evasive. still so reluctant to answer my qns on
things, and when i asked when can we meet, he said maybe april. i
was so mad and i felt that he was stringing me along. Confronted
him , but he was still evasive.
so we broke up in end march.
Recently he called me, claimed that he has divorced, asked me to
patch up. So i asked for time to think. we communicate via email,
msn and phone. he asked to meet. i turned him down. as i think it
is not a gd idea to let emotion overtake gd judgement, and you
really wont know how things will turn out after meeting up. he
agreed. i think it is fair to only set a deadline, so i told him i
will let him know the answer by october. he agreed too.
all this while, i have been considering. And all this while, he has
asked to meet occasionally, i turned him down.
this morning, he insist that he wants to meet me this weekend, and
want things to 'move', cos he is lonely and he is refraining
himself from getting involved in other relationship while waiting
for me.
i feel that this is absurd. this is too much. so if he wants, he
can ignore me totally and dont meet me at all even though we were
together (ie a couple). and now he is lonely, i must meet him
despite i need the time to have a clear mind to think? 
Is he disregarding my feelings? Does he really think i am a
inferior being to him? Does he even respect me at all?
