a wise man once said,
"a friend loves at all time, a brother is born of adversity"
if they don't even bother considering your feelings on your
birthday, they cannot be trusted in times of trouble. choose your
friends wisely lor.
its better to hv few but loyal friends, than to have many of these
inconsiderate "brothers".
i once attended a friend's party, but because her friends all too
diverse, too many different groups of people, and she was so busy
fluttering around to spend some time with everyone.
naturally, since i do not know anybody there, it was very boring.
but even though i wasn't close to her, i still stayed until they
cut the cake. and i reminded myself that she's the star of the
show, in the end, she must be the one who enjoyed herself.
lol, people who don't even have basic courtesy and manners,
definitely cannot be relied on in times of trouble, cannot be
called a "brother".
then again, everyone makes mistakes, at least hv the decency to
admit it and apologise. 
