if u n ur gf r getting married soon

last SG · 2007-08-24T00:05:24+00:00

( cont with ts thread title...)..... WATCH LICENSE TO WED!! most likely ur marriaage might juz fall thru

Guardx SG

letz say if u pak tor for some time liao n ur gf tell u maybe itz time u n her get married ... n u oso feel dat since both of u r of so-called marriagable age so itz probably about time liao.

the wedding date oredi set ... wedding dinner book oredi ... photo shoot oso done ... juz a couple of mths to ur big day ... ~

if at this point she suddenly tell u she dun intend to hv kids after marriage for reasons ranging from dun like kids to not wanting to get out of shape etc etc ... ~

will u still go ahead n marry her ... esp when u noe ur parents r expecting grandchildren

blu_sky SG

have you ever discussed this topic with her during your courtship?

do you want to have kids?

Zarks SG

Don worry, just make love with her.. then it will be unexpected and unavoided.

She doesnt like kids doesnt mean she don wan to have any kids also ma...

U can always tell her how its like to have own baby then sooner she will think bout it too

FOr body shape.. aiya.. after give birth, can still slim down wat... nowadays so many treatment n pills ler.. u thk like guy need to go gym ar?

Persuade her lor ..

Omniknight SG

i am looking for girls who dun want to have kids

euc SG

Its her body, she gets to decide.

Not4rent SG

all settle liow then say. just marry and fark her raw. sure get preggy

Inzaghi SG

she says dun wan kids is based on current thinking..5yrs down the rd things will change n she might be the one asking for a bb..

elindra SG

Do you personally want kids
It does not mean your parents expect grandchildren you have to produce for them to play with

Anyway soon it will boil down to Kids vs Time vs $$$ Laughing

Guardx SG

I got this reply from my friend

"
Tell her its ok.

She can be ur wife.

But can choose not to be e mother of ur children...

I am sure many other ladies wont mind helpin u wif dat........

"

I was like Shocked Shocked

but who agrees with him?

selfobliged SG

waa..u should ask b4 u propose. Ask her what if u want to have kids?

elindra SG

That is the most childish advise I have ever heard Rolling Eyes
Seriously, find out what is her actual concern about having children
As long as you can provide the answer to her fears she is less likely to be so against children and also her bioclock might tick and she will want kids on her own

de_middle SG

intention on whether to have kids shld have been agreed upon much earlier. are there parents out there who'll still expect grandchildren Question then how come birth rate still so low Rolling Eyes

Not4rent SG

good idea.

adopt lor

DjMatrix SG

after marriage jus do it loh

popikachu SG

Just share a story with you...

My parents didnt want to get any child at first... But, they accidentally get a child... In the late 20s... Well that's still not me yet as my parents aborted it.

After they past their 30s, they got another one, which is me... They have been together since 16 years old... and finally decide to have me at their age of 32... Then another one after 4 years...

So what i want to say is that, people might chance their thinking after a period of time. Just hope that the period of time isn't that long.

Wink

hisoka SG

no kids also good lah. anyway so what you going to do if she really don't want kids?

go find another one who wants to produce babies? will you be able to do it? and how good the relationship gooing to be? chances are you are better stuck with the present happy and good one and hope to change the midn later

browniebaobao SG

mindset will change de..

i think every woman will want to bear a child for the one she loves.

sEphIrOth SG

u say ok now, nxt time she will wan to have, if not adopt lor if she scared giving birth, if not then nevermind lor

LyonK SG

they aborted the wrong one Crying or Very sad

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Edit: typo