Any married guy can help? My wife always threaten divorce
whenever we quarrel. Both of us are bad-tempered, and a small tiff
can escalate into a big fight. But I love her and separation is
never on my mind. It is not the same case with her. She admitted
that she didn't mean it as she only said it in the moment of anger
to purposely irritate me! But now, the idea of divorce is slowly
getting into my head.
In terms of temper, both of us have different momentum. She can
explode, even into streaks of violence, but is quick to forgive and
forget. I am calm, argue rationally, but difficult to forget
fights. Perhaps it's me, but I've noticed that I have not gone on a
full week without her finding fault and starting an argument with
me.
Latest saga now is: -
I complain mildly that she controls over me too strictly, and asks
too many questions.
She denies it.
I quote a few examples and she flares up.
She said if I have reported everything, then she wouldn't need to
ask.
I told her if she were more supportive, then I would have shared
everything with her.
She threaten divorce after exploding...again.
Feeling I may be too frank, I apologise.
She never calm down.
Now we are still not talking. I can see she's angry 'cause she slam
the door and threw stuff violently around.
How? Help? 
