Who know, maybe after fighting, things get better liao.
In all relationships, it needs to go thru the test of time.
I got a roommate in my hostel who moved out after 3 of us
quarrelled with her, becos she is so untidy, throw bras and
underwears anyhow, then we have to pick up for her and also do the
sweeping, she never do any roomwork. And also bring bfs to our
room.
After she left, we have to pay more money as now 3 of us have to
share rather than 4.
But 2 months later, she is back with us because she went to the
other room, get bullied and kicked out. Now she appreciate what we
have done for her. She apologised to us and said that actually,
without knowing the outside, she thot we were the worst lot, but
actually we are the best of the best.
The 4 steps of relationship
1. Introduction: very warm and nice, courteous and polite
2. Pre-storming: start to have problems, the like and dislike, the
comparison, the sacrification, the arguement, stamp authority, the
tolerance and endurance among each other.
3. The perfect Storm: Wow, quarrels and even fightings, scolded
here and there, no respect anymore, knowing each other bad habit
and points, look for trouble, sore in the eyes. Everthing good is
bad, everything end in bad mood and quarrel. In the end, broke off
relationship, but if the relationship is not broken off, it arrive
at the next step, so call
4. Normaling: It like after a big storm, all clear liao, you know
my style, i know your style, each have each other respect space,
the do and don't. All learned to understand each other like and
dislike.
From then on, you may become good buddies, gf/bf, husband and wife,
colleagueship, boss and subordinates. teacher and students etc etc
and all other relationship.
