Have you gamble and lost heavily
before?
When that happens, chances are, your mind wouldn't think of
winning, but rather, you would be trying to 'break even' from your
losses by betting more or stretching yourself to the maximum
'credit limit' you can handle.
Of course, more often than not, our luck is already bad enough to
begin with (which is why we are losing) and as we gamble further,
we lose even more... until we are left with no choice but to
cease.
But there are times when we see ourselves recuperating from our
debts... strangely.
***
You might reckon that you have run out of love for
someone, but in reality, you have reached your break-even point. So
much so that right now, your inner self is asking if you should
continue your gamble because you can now opt to exit safely, since
clarify has returned to you.
It's very much an innate fear; asking you to accept her whole
heartedly once again with more 'investments'. This is a blatant
reminder of the pain you went through previously. Most people are
fine with not winning or scoring victories, for as long as they can
avoid disappointments and failures.
Once you have cleared your spiritual debts (via a karmic
relationship); through our higher consciousness, there's often
little meaning to remain anymore and we feel the need to 'graduate'
from our circumstances. Graduation doesn't necessary means
departure - it could also mean shedding the old skin of your
relationship by breathing a new life and renew the entire structure
of your love.
Your always have the freewill to decide the outcome of your
relationship. Currently, imho, to break up is as viable as to give
her one last chance.
It's your call my friend. 
Cheers
