People will always grow from experiences. Its whether they learn
it as a lesson or take it as something bad happening to them n
continue to transform them into anger n frustration and stray
themselves from the right path.
Every mistake we make , every bad decision , wrong and hurtful
situation is always a result of our own actions and also inactions
of another.
I totally understand what T.S means. We will never know whether the
bad experiences , the bad incidents that never shouldve have
happened , happened to us... and why. But it happened. N from that
it may have shaped our character and opened our eyes.Some go
downhill from there , some learn from it and try to climb back up
with the burden of fear,anger and frustration weighting on their
back There are many instances , where we all experience a different
experiences in life. Maybe not the same but similiar , but how we
handled the situations may differ and the result is what we are
today.
The memories will always haunt us. But its the ability of the
person to learn from it and change for the better. He himself will
chose the path he has chosen and through every action he makes he
can feel and know the end result , and with every path chosen he
can either correct the sail or continue on with self
destruction.
but seriously , i have always asked myself that question. That is
one of the questions i ask myself every day when people ask about
bad experiences in life. Am i a better person after what transpired
years ago ? I can say yes.. and until today i have regretted the
actions and decisions i have made upon myself and others. The marks
i left on others and the repercussions of those actions on me
today.Did i do what i had to do right ? even though it was wrong ,
but based on the situation and the state of mind , i thought it was
the best possible course. What would i be like if i have never
experienced all those events and painful lesson ? I will never
know, but i know i am who i am today.
