Originally posted by Zarks:
[b]Guys n girls,
Welcome and thanks for taking your precious time to read
this.
Im confused.. I had an ex which broke up with me few years ago just
bcuz she wanna go study overseas. She never believe in
long-distance relationship. In my opinion, she's just dont trust
me. Am i right or wrong? Please comment...
Its been few years til we last broke up. I had this urge to keep
calling her even whn shes at overseas. I have no idea why did i do
that all of sudden. Why is this happening? She seems to be fine and
we always talked to each other in the phone.
Im confused if my subconsious mind giving me hope to get together
with her back or what?
I guess she's kinda knw if i still have feeling to her..but i cant
tell her for sure that i still have the feeling cuz i myself not
sure. So i ended up saying "Dont knw... maybe.."
Then, she'll shes like wanna let things go by itself, naturally and
telling something like we should get to know each other more. Im
confused by what she said...
TO conclude:
a) Confused whether i wan to b together with her again
b) Confused what had she say bout letting it be natural and we
should get to know each other more
c) Confused if i just wanna talk to her cuz it feels
comfortable
d) Confused if im jus trying to improve my skills on how to talk to
gal to attract them and she's just an experimental rat.. (oh gosh,
i hope i never said that)
e) What will she do if she's interested in talking to me back? Any
signs? She did call me sometimes but due to its high cost n shes
still studying, she rarely call me. And she calls all her best
frens n parents.
Appreciate any help and comment. Thanks for your time. Let me know
if u guys need more details. Will get back to your comment
asap.
Chiouz, Zarks
[/b]
It's all about being logical - a stronger emphasis
on the mental faculty. Surely a sour break-off deriving from a
failed LDR might be rancorous for both parties, as there isn't much
confidence in surmounting that challenge, she probably opt for a
much safer route to undertake - an amicable, mutually agreed
departure.
To me, it might not be so much about a relationship; it could be
the 'tissue-on-table' situation, like how office ladies would
'reserve' their seats in hawker centre. She might not have anyone
in mind right now and wouldn't mind being flippant with her
words/action just to bind you emotionally with subtle means.
After all, the rationale she gave you for concluding this
relationship is because she doesn't trust LDR and therefore, it
makes no sense if she would be interested to restore the
relationship, since this constant hasn't change any bits.
Reservation?
If she has found someone she fancy over there, I highly doubt she
will continue any chapters with you as the protagonist.
I suggest until she comes back home; keep your options open.
Cheers
