If I were u, I will try to look for another man.
Because with him, it will be complicated, he needs to spend time
with his kids, and u also will have step-children.
I do not know whether I would be willing to pay such a price.
The world is big, there are many more people out there. Give some
time, meet more people, and u can find a more suitable life
partner. Less complicated, and more happiness.
Life already has too much problem on its own, but at least on the
matter of marriage, we are supposed to have our choice and steer
our future. I will not want to add my life's problems and burdens
with marrying this man. If I were you. It is just tiring, and life
is too short.
Since you are 26, you are still young, you have alot of time, give
yourself a pause, a break, and self-reflect. You dont need to
settle with him right now. Dont rush and force yourself into
something you might regret later.
Meat Pao.