Guys: Do you pay all the time?

constancebay SG

I was just thinking..

Guys: When you go out with your gf/wive, are you the 1 who pays for everything? Meaning everytime you go out, you are the 1 paying while she never volunteers to pay before..

In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat?

BadzMaro SG

Maybe.. most probably =) she is using n abusing u.

But if its my wife.. or gf of course i pay ma. if date , also lo.. unless she insists.. n date has higher chances she may just be using u to get some good free food. But i think a girl has to reasonably like u to go out to eat with u la.. if not eating with someone u dont like is really stress lo.. he he

can still eat meh.. if me i cannot even eat man..

Ferguson SG

sg girls want independence but still expect men to pay for everything.

rathcycle SG

i try my best to pay everytime
act gentleman Cool
but deep inside is... Confused

selfobliged SG

Well…some understanding ones would go dutch. Of course the 1st date guys pay for everything la. =P

stellazio SG

dates yea la.

constancebay SG

Your gf everytime ask you to pay? Confused

dragg SG

i know of women who always expect the guy to pay.

constancebay SG

What type of women are they?

popikachu SG

Depends...

If it is a date, most likely i will treat her...

but if just normal meet up nia then who pay also nvm de... well me and my ex were not stingy on money though...

Wink

"In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat?"

It maybe a yes and a no answer...
well again everything depend...
You won't 100% know what someone is thinking...

constancebay SG

So every date that you go out with her, you will treat her in every date?

ILPSY SG

Well... ... I guess it depends on the situation and the people you are going out with.

When I went out with guys, normally I would pay on the first date. And for the rest of the dates, its either going dutch or treating each other on other occasions.

But there is only 1 guy who refused to let me pay. Even if I made it clearly that it would be my treat but it always ended up with him paying. He will get angry if I tried to push him the $. Mr. Green

So, that depends on the situation and the people involved.

rathcycle SG

no lah,
but she is not very rich
and im more financially able.. Embarassed

rathcycle SG

materialistic women.

Seven_Dragon SG

if you love her more, you pay loh...
if you ok ok only, then go dutch... until the day when you think you cannot live without her, then you pay...

every time pay, very siong one!!!

ILPSY SG

Well the guy is richer than me, and I am doing part-time job at the moment as I will be going overseas later. So, his excuse is that "you are unemployed now" even though i insisted that I am working part-time. Mr. Green

Oh well......

constancebay SG

How come you pay on the 1st date?

I thought is guys pay on the 1st date de Laughing

ILPSY SG

Hahaha... because I won't feel bad if there's no 2nd date! hahaha...

Personally, I feel that its better for a lady to pay for the first meal because I think its only fair and we won't give guys the impression that we are cashing on their expenses. Well, we are living in the modern society and women are already working. Thats my personal opinion.

dragg SG

normal looking, working woman.

Xephone_xenon SG

I think if you all want to maintain good and healthy relationship.
Both pay half half.
If not at least must 7:3 or something.
Girls also must take the responsibility in a relationship ma.