Bullies

MrSotong SG

Greetings ..

Well things isn't going well ... these few days ..

I am here to seek for advise ..

What if .. :

Your classmate , which is fat and "like to bully" people type. He tends to joke alot and sometimes giving facetious remarks .. during class . He is those type of "not scare" of teachers ..

If you happen to "fight" with him .. He seems to be "losing" .. and he started calling you names : "Gay" , "prositute"(sp) , idiot .. etc etc .

What will you do ?

Remember : You are not those type of "love to fight" people , you are respected by most of your classmates because of your good results and so on ..

You told him : Leave me alone , your negative comments will not affect me and i won't be bother about it . You can say bad things about me , i won't bother much about it ..

One thing about him is : He love calling people "Extra"

What will you do ? Ignore him for life or what ?

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Your friend told you that : "I will call the seniors the beat him up" ..

Do you think I should call the seniors to beat this pest up >? Or forgive and forget ?

Cool-gal SG

in ur case, just will ignore him.
he will get tired after many no-response.
personally, i will attack him back with words. do wad he did to u. just dun fight.

angel7030 SG

Teachers are paid $2500 to $8000 per month
Principles are paid 10000 to 20000 per month
Headmasters are paid an extra $500 allowance

This years teachers bonuses is going to be 3 months +++

What are they doing?
Please approach them if you have any problem in school, if not they will just shake legs and chit chatting in the net. Give them some job ya

NewAge SG

teachers and principals are useless when coming to settle bullying. Why i know that because i ask for their help before.

In my case its the vice principal. he dun care to hear the whole story just call both of us to shake hand and then go to the discipline master office to receive punishment which is to pick rubbish. Who wack me first, who suffer the bruises and please i did not retaliate at all n in the end i got punish too. F

The teacher prefer to ignore what the hell is going on until i cried. Even when i cried she just ask what happen say stop throwing things at him and then continue on which the lesson while the boys keep throwing things at me.

Okay these happen like 10yrs ago in primary school so the system might chg i do not know.

Aaron8209 SG

heck care to avoid trouble,,,, Rolling Eyes

de_middle SG

how many sotong are there in SGF Question

Ito_^ SG

Laughing like kids.

angel7030 SG

Dunno, some become cuttlefish liao.

GoodBook SG

bingo. they are totally useless because most of the time they'll bo chup. make you shake the bully's hand and be friends etc. then tml get bullied again lol.

rathcycle SG

around 3

ghimpheng SG

as long as he don't get physical is okay

try not to answer his negative comments

share with the teacher if u need this kind of negative comments everyday can affect you

bigmouthjoe SG

There was once a bully in school who used to pick on me, but after I found out we shared the same interest after I bumped into him at Serene Center, we became fast friends.

Ah... the good old days.

MrSotong SG

Any sacastic remarks ??

Well he probably use the same "style" ..

Just can't stand this fatting smelly pig ..

BTW ... he is sitting beside me :S

Physical > Sometimes .. maybe . ?

Yes , school teachers SUCKS ..

They don't take any actions even the person or whomever scolded Chicken word or whatsoever . .

Arrrgghhh .. .. just don't go to any of those neighbourhood school .. maybe ?

Seth35 SG

I had a Ex Classmate who was damm beng and kept using his threats to Disturb us...

During that time he had a badd record in school... so that time we Signed a petition and the Monitor signed as a eye witness....

By using that petition we kicked him out of the school

NewAge SG

hes sitting beside u!!! Just pray to chg seats then.

Teachers are not actually useless. u need to push them in a corner to to make them act. To do that the key is exaggerate and scheme.

From my exp u need to let the bully know u are no pushover. This does not mean that u shld get into squabble with him. U need act tough n hack care at the same time. Ai yah very hard to put in words.

Haii another way is to understand the root cause of his actions. To do this u must be either very lucky (caught him at his weakest moments in life like when he is crying) or capable enough to crack the nut

binarynwitz SG

Each time he passes some sarcastic remarks at you, just look at him in the eye, slightly shake your head and grin slightly.

Stand tall, stand proud. Wear a smile, and let them wonder why you're smiling. Wink

angel7030 SG

Sorry, like this they may send you to IMH.

cheekycheng SG

just say one phrase : jiak buay tuah (juvenile)...

word Rolling Eyes

No9 SG

heck care.

sooner or later he will lose interest in u.

ohnoez! SG

do stuffs that will irritate him yet he wont know who is the culprit XD put pins on his chair! glue his books! vandalise his table! draw stupid stuffs on his books! hide his chair!!!!!!!