Dr Who SG http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBE_rirLqpU Will you be true to your dead loved one......or remarry.......?
Dr Who SG What if you had promised to be true even in the event one party pass away? What if you have sworn to love each other like this : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMuvmYdbEB0 Does a promise still count?
Cool-gal SG if u can sleep soundly or she haunt u after tat, then go for it lor.. she shd understand tat if u were to remarry.
Archirodon SG It depends. If gf pass away, probably yes, if the right one comes along. If wife pass away, its also depends if you have kids and if their age is too young. While you cope with the dismise of a beloved one, your attention to the kids is most important. If you find a new wife, your attention will be divided and if the new wife is understanding and willing to help you look after your kids, then go for it. But more often that not she will fight for your attention than to burden herself to look after someone else's kids. Unless your kids are already grown ups and independant. Then you can consider but again your age makes it hard to find another if your children are grown ups. But if wife passed away without kids, then stay as a widower. One mistake is good enuf... Btw, promises are meant to be broken....
Dr Who SG in the video, the Chinese poet wrote of his departed gf/wife: "You lie sleeping thru the long summer days, the long winter nights In a hundred years I would lie next to you....until then wait for me in peace" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBE_rirLqpU How to haunt......? still sleeping and waiting in heaven/hell..... '' I mean do the dead know the affairs of the living?
popikachu SG YOu may continue in Youtube forum. Also, you have been creating a number of thread in AA for Youtube video. Please post in the correct forum.