Love is something very...unpredicatable, even if someone managed
to do a detailed analysis on the subject based on his experience
and knowledge, things may happen very differently.
Things are always different with love because it involves people of
different personality so one must not assume, only except taking
the stand of being optimistic or being pessimistic.
My ex, well, she wanted a break up because we had a serious quarrel
and she treated me like dirt when i tried to do something to
salvage the relationship, i thought it was the end but however, a
perculiar thing happen, when we started to talk again like after 3
months, she dropped hints that she still like me and wanted to be
together again. Therefore if you want to court your ex back ( win
is not a good word ), decide whether if you still love her.
If yes, go do what you need to do, if everything fails, just leave
it, don't cling on to failures. Things you do now can really affect
you in the future so try to reduce regrets.
I believed that being optimistic is a good thing but overly
optimistic is bad so exercise some thoughts before doing. Always
expect the unexpected!
be a man, do the right thing. I'm sure no one want to have regrets
so do what you need to do and leave before any harm is done, be
truthful to yourself.