yes, it is true that he whines to me regularly (well at least
used to, he hasnt done that since that nite i shown my
unhappiness), and he really is concerned for people around him. but
it would be unfair to say that he barely lift a finger, he does put
in effort to create nice moments for us, at times when time was
tough, he brought to to a sanctuary to rest, away from the problem.
but it is also true that unlike what he would do if unfair and
insulting remarks were made to other of his friends when he would
stand up for them, he just asked me to ignore it. i believe it is
for the same reason many here had speculated, he doesnt want to
create the scene since firstly, that is a woman, secondly, that
woman is the gf of a very nice friend.
