involve with someone

last SG · 2007-07-22T18:17:53+00:00

hmmmm.... As how are the nationality are formed so are the different groups there are today, the lesbians, the gays , the butches, the swingers, the chiongst...

798 SG

comeon, u r a man. since both of u know this r/s is no string attached. time for u to jump off this running train before it crashes n fall into the ocean. stop being whiny to a gal. Very Happy

if AA is a guy, alot of us here will term her as a jerk, but since she is a gal n take it as a man. it's time to let go.

furthermore, u have a gf n it's better not to let her down.

ShrodingersCat SG

take a step back and assess the situation with honesty towards urself ba
Hmm think of what you have got to lose, and what u are actually prepared to lose

and eh, for goodness sake, get a health check.

haywir SG

Haha.. Ya, I do get dissapointed and disgusted with my handling.. I tot a man should handle this better.. I am just emotionally weak.. I hate myself for handling it so poorly.. Thanks 798.. It does feel good to see all your comments.. Although I cant decide on the course of action to take..

ispyyy SG

Since u r the one tat post yr problems, we should give advice tat is from yr view point...
First thing, u need to clear yr guilt... U have to understand tat there is no right and wrong in this world... U r not the only one in this world tat have such situation... It is just tat this situation are not proud to be declared by others ><
What u dont find in yr gf, u find them in AA... Tat is the reason on y u involve with her... But, is tat what u really want ??? U have to think what u really want

U need to clear yr guilt towards yr gf... Coz, end of the day, u dont be with a girl because of guilt... It will only cause u and the girl to suffer if it is because of guilt. U be with the girl because u love her. U have to think y do u love yr gf???

And lastly, think for yrself... Dont think for yr gf's feelings or AA's feelings... Make decision for yrself... Coz, ultimately the decision tat u make for yrself, benefit all parties...

Of coz, if it is TS's gf post her story here, the advice will be different too...

Uncertain SG

Since u choose to repent, then u should know what to do now... All man do lust over HOT babe, me too. But since the wrong cannot be undone, y not treat ur girl with all ur heart now. Loving someone who love u is not easy, all this needs affinity... treasure it before it's too late

haywir SG

Thanks ivp for your advice.. I have sinned and I am guilty, without doubt.. This feelings cause me to be haywire.. I admit I wish to possess AA.. Her relationships with her guy frds do make me jealous.. I guess its the work of my ego.. I seriously needs to sort up myself.. Sad

parn SG

If you find yourself falling in love again, just let go all of your rational thoughts, drop yourself deeply into the realms of love and allow the uncertaincies factors to guide you through.

Ultimately, both might not be "The One" for you cos if one of them is really "The One", then you wouldn't be having this moral dilemma.

As much as I hate to reveal this, girls also keep a lookout for better guys even when they are happily attached. Cos nobody can be 100% sure that the guy that you're with at the moment is "The One" for you.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

TS, can you feel the genuine love from AA? She have sex with you because she loves you.

Well, I don't really know her background. So there are 2 possibility. Either she really loves you, or she is a sperm toilet.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

EH forum.

parn SG

Sperm toilet is a very rude expression...

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I apologise if anyone feel offended. Sorry.

popikachu SG

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259363

Hope this might help in understanding who you really love now.

Delphian SG

Sorry if this may sound offensive, but looking at AA's behaviour, i don't reckon she could be a reliable gf material... She might be too much for you to take if you both do get attached...

And by doing this to your gf behind her back is very unfair to her you know? YOu wouldn't want her to do this behind you also right?

It's your choice, whatever you do, try not to hurt anyone, and yourself ba... Smile

haywir SG

Hi darkness.. Well, I am certain AA does not love me.. The dilemna is with me.. The start of our "relationship" was agreed upon of companionship, lust, no-strings, no-commitment etc.. The fault is with my heart, for not adhering to the rules of the "relationship".. This should be call emotional weakness I guess..

Darkness_hacker99 SG

You should cherish the person infront of you now. What has happened had happened. Treat it as a lesson, and don't make the same mistake again. Wink

Probably what you can do now is to go check for HIV or STD. Smile

haywir SG

Thanks Delp.. What you had said is really true.. I should not even feel jealous or what, over her contacts with her guy friends.. They can be so imitate be it in smsing that it sort of disturb my ego.. I know I should not feel that way.. As to my gf, yes.. I have sinned big time..

haywir SG

I just spend some time reading it.. Indeed it is enlightening.. Thank you for sharing.. Smile

Pion SG

AA is just a cheap meaningless fling.

You already have something good going, why settle for someone like her?

Delphian SG

Perhaps when you see other guys being around her, you don't feel good, coz you might feel that you're sharing her?

But if you could have her all to yourself, would you want her as much anymore?

And do you really love your gf? Why are you like more occupied about AA's feelings towards you than how much you have let your gf down? Laughing

I'm a girl, so i dun really knw how guys feel... For me, i think that if i have a bf i really love, i wouldn't even think of sleeping with someone else... but again, like i said, im a girl...

haywir SG

Yes, to say it cruely, AA is for just a fling.. Due to my "lousy" emotional, the fling is turning to one that I wish for possession of her.. Damn it me.. I am lousy in my emotion.. Maybe I am just not cut up to be a "player".. You know, AA will not feel anything if we end our "relationship".. Its so ironic that me, a guy, will feel sad if i end it with AA.. I guess she handled it very well..

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