So true.
My Girlfriend is the same league as TS's, and she dislikes me to go
out with anyone else or bring anyone home, but when I do tell her,
the damage dealt/received is minimised on both parties.
Trust building takes time and losing trust could happen in an
instant, basically the reason why I try my best to practice
transparency in our relationship.
Maybe you should try too, and instead of just 'yessing' your
partner, why not get her involved and explain to her your plight,
which would probably end up in a quarrel or meet the wall of
denial. So why not just accept it, i.e if you love her enough