For her good problem

last SG · 2007-07-19T00:20:44+00:00

ur fren muz be mesmerized by her beauty right?

tek_koh SG

Lets say you have a stubborn girlfriend.
Sometimes she will do things that is against her welfare , like skip lunch.Other things also la..like see her home etc etc etc
When you offered to buy meals for her she will stubborn say dun wan.
but you know that is for her own good. will you be stubborn too and buy or give in?

ChoCoChips SG

buy.
im a da nan ren. Laughing

thumbelina SG

how is 'seeing her home' not good for her welfare?

pinkish purple papayas SG

that means she is not interested in u.

She rather skip lunch then to face u.

tek_koh SG

she say dun wan to mah fan me wad…but i really dun mind leh

de_middle SG

actually quite unlikely GF will turn you down....somethings not right here i think Neutral

ghirlhie SG

as her if there’s something wrong

frakfrakfrak SG

There’s this movie “Diary of a Tired Black Man”. Very good for BGR tips.

ChingAlvin SG

she just wants her own life i guess. dont want bf to affect her daily life so much

lageihsif SG

shes a nu qiang ren

yiha093 SG

juz buy and bring it there, she dun1 u makan Laughing

browniebaobao SG

then u have to coax her.

nv ren shi xu yao hong de.

last time i sick.. gastric flu.. still insisted going to school..

my bf then.. he smsed me "tell u see doc u dun listen"

at that moment i tot he angry leh.. and i know he was really worried.. so i immediately replied 'ok ok darling... i'll go see doc" Embarassed

ShrodingersCat SG

fwah. my husband tell me that I sure flare up one

NB sick liao bobian need to go work cos got something need to get done
still kenna suan.

come back home sure kenna left right centre

me neh, is eat soft dont eat hard. I also dont like guys to make me feel like they sacrifice a lot for me. So if send me home need to ASK me like "i send u home ok?" or "i buy food for u okaay?" then i sure will say NO.

But if send me home as matter of course "come, let's go home" then I will be impressed. Very Happy if come tt time buy my favourite food, I also sure happy one.

hai.. but sometimes too happy buy food too much also not good lah. -pat tummy- burp!

browniebaobao SG

haha..

im the xiao nv ren type.. and im v soft hearted in front of someone i love. Embarassed

im same as u.. if bf ask me whether he can send me home, i'll say NO most of the times.. bcos i dun want to tire him out.. i can walk home myself, so that he can get an early rest. If he wants to bring me to a nice restaurant and enjoy a good meal, i'll say no.. coz dun want him to spend money on me.

sometimes i think im beyond hope.. treat them so good for wat? Break up le, they dun even look me up or think of me and the things i did. haiz.

ShrodingersCat SG

yalor tt is why i think treat men cannot treat too good Very Happy

must treat them good when they don't expect it
everytime treat them good only will be taken for granted one
and then they try harder to please u *heh heh heh*

anyway it is not effective if 'reward' indiscriminately if
no. 1, reward is not what recipient desires
no. 2, it is too easy to get rewarded then no meaning in the 'reward'

browniebaobao SG

yalor.. i learned it the hard way..

and now got no chance to put what i learned into practice.

tek_koh SG

what if she is the da nu ren im the xiao nan ren

Uncertain SG

ShrodingersCat & browniebaobao

are really difficult to please.... haiz...

browniebaobao SG

then u must be really love her a lot.. if not, cannot last long de. Laughing

browniebaobao SG

wat makes u say that?

like wat FI mentioned... girls pay for their own, guys de ego cannot take it.. girls dun wana pay, guys think girls are sponging on them.

guys are the ones who are really difficult to please. Laughing