Yunhaier SG Then how do you show affection to people we love? Hugs and kisses are intrinsic human behaviour in relationship, not just necessarily BGR. We need about four hugs a day for growth. Who gets four hugs a day here? P.S: No wonder they need to start a free hug campaign in Singapore - urban life is making people too aloof and emotionally inhibited. Cheers
qlqq9 SG oops sorry, me side track a little. hi, moderator, Yunhaier, nice having u around. Someone new. WE need a break from fI, ha ha!!
Ionlytalknoaction SG I don't think a relationship can last without hugs and kisses..... But even I need a hug from mother and ex-gfs all the time.
Bontakun SG Funny... I have a guy friend who said the exact words you did. Juz change the man to woman. How old are you? Schooling or working? Pardon me but I read so many posts and its rather messy.
bkbatboy SG hugs are important!with hug we feel secure and comfortable which no other actions can bring.
jjlogan SG a hug can be a meaning of acceptance, security and feeling loved by the opposite party. if you are referring to casual dating and he din ask you to be his gf. you dont need to bother so much. but if for 10 whole months as his gf and you are not willing to let him hug you or even you to give him a hug. then jus go think about it. in all r/s, there will be a moment of foolishness but will both parties be stupid enough to have those stuffs?
iwishYOU SG yea, my ex is the same. i'm not sure if he really had feelings for me in the first place because i just don't understand why he could just leave me so easily. we sort of broke up already but still remained close and one day we went out. he wanted to get so intimate and i didn't really want it but gave in to a certain extent. the next day he told me that he just wanted to remain as friends. that's like so ironic. i got pissed off and he totally cut off all contact with me. a few days later he got a new girl. a jerk, but i still loved him. finally i realised that i shall not be stupid anymore. he's so not worth it. wasted my time on him. my tears and thinking of him. sacrificed for him but its all not worth it. bastards like him should get their retribution. hope they'll wake up and learn their lesson. get a taste of their own medicine. lol.
