Look at it this way, how often in life can you fall for someone?
For many people, falling in love with someone means that that
someone has a special quality about him/her that causes attraction.
Why do u feel that he is someone u shouldn't fall for?
Qualifications, lifestyle and whatever else u listed are just not
reasons enough.
The real reason, i suspect, is because you think he is no good for
u. In the first 2 paragraphs, u already say that u felt that he was
not the type of guy u usually go for. That means, he is not the
kind of person u have in mind right from the start. Yet, somehow,
unwittingly, u have fallen for him. This, plus the fact that you
never thought u could love again, cause u to think that u shouldn't
love him.
My advise to you is, search urself deeply. Are u willing to love
again? Do you think that this guy is the right one for u? If so,
then go for it. Happiness only come once, and it often demands that
people take it at the first sight of it. Hesitate, and often
happiness slips away.
