Needed help for an anorexic

AndrewPKYap SG

huh? she actually exercise? Outdoor exercise? In the gym? Alone at home?

spadeTwo SG

she doesnt want
i have to change her thinking myself..

outdoor..
and she dont feel hungry after them...

reverse psychology ?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Well there's one way you can help her..

Film a video with the casts like researcher, nurse, doctors, patients.. etc... Make it like a documentary show..

Then show it to her..

AndrewPKYap SG

She exercises regularly outdoors? Alone or with friends?

the Bear SG

nope.. showing what she's throwing away to be 'skinny'

btw.. all successful anorexics die ugly

spadeTwo SG

i dun understand what are you referring to....could you please explain ?
and to the other's, please do not ask what is irrelevant please...

AndrewPKYap SG

Serious, she exercises regularly outdoors with friends or alone? How often does she exercise?

spadeTwo SG

i dunch noe
but that doesnt really matter
WHAT I NEED IS SOMETHING TO CHANGE HER MINDSET.

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Hmm... she does at least eat some food...

What type of food does she eat? Snacks? Protein-rich food?

AndrewPKYap SG

You can change her mindset by changing her behavior also... and that is usually easier.

spadeTwo SG

low cholestrol
low carbs
anything that makes her fat
she eat veggies only.. and very small amt..

spadeTwo SG

dun say like this
i dun understand at all
give straight to the point answer..

the Bear SG

didn't read the story?

anorexics don't have friends because they don't have the energy to go out with them...

they won't have boyfriends or love lives because they don't have.. you know..

they'll end up with nothing and will eventually die.. either from suicide because of depression, or from malnutrition...

they've giving up on everything to be skinny...

appeal to their logic... if malnutrition hasn't eaten away and damaged their brain already... and if it has, there is only physical intervention left to prevent their death

Darkness_hacker99 SG

har? sure??

Yunhaier SG

I remember there was one case where someone I know almost become anorexic; then the literally whole world kept telling her she doesn't look good because she's so thin and all that stuff, until she return back to eating. That constant reinforcing kinda restore her mindset, of course with the help of everybody.

If you want to change her mindset, you got to change her perception of beauty. Idea

Cheers

AndrewPKYap SG

Get her to change her behavior... get her to exercise more, go out with friends more, make new friends, go on dates.... do the things that normal people do.... do more of the things that normal people do...

You are trying to change her mindset by what? Talking to her? Convincing her with your arguments? Good luck, I don't think it will work.... it is not so simple.

ndmmxiaomayi SG

OK, strike from there. Rather than focus on veggies only, have her to take some fruits.

Cut into small bit-sized pieces and have her to take at least 2 pieces.

Or when you guys are out, order a fruit drink...

spadeTwo SG

i dont understand the sotry actually
and then she jio me go out lo Embarassed
and then you say they they don't have wad cuz of lovelife/boyfriend ? sex ?
and she is very strong mentally 1 la..
if she was to go weaker.. it most probably is malnutrition loh..
and yes she is giving up on everything JUST TO BE SKINNY

and i dunno how to appeal to their logic

psst. PLEASE GIVE DIRECT ANSWERS PLEASE, CUZ I CANT TAKE HINTS, ty. and i actually..u know.. the 4 letter words..with her.. Embarassed

spadeTwo SG

say wrong lah..
she dont eay anything that makes one fat..

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Well, I think we should ask her what’s a ambition and her dream~ Then from there, we can do anything we want because that’s the influencial part of the human being.

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