u dun want us to hint, yet u try to hint us something -.-
Anyway... I agree with most of the posts that her mindset does need
to be changed... The best person to change her would be the person
she believes and trusts most (is it you?). Thin = pretty is an
image projected too much by the media.
What I always advocate is being fit instead of thin. Not eating
makes you even fatter next time when u decide to start eating
because the metabolism rate would have been forcibly cut back by
lack of food. Furthermore, it may let her hv a tummy, which makes
her want to cut back her food intake even more.
You will need to start feeding her. The idea is to eat healthier,
not eat less. Not eating will make your body start breaking down
internal cells for energy and other necessary functions. She
wouldn't want to have osteoporosis before her mum does. Neither
would she want a stomach filled with ulcers at an early age.
Try to feed her some liquid food at first... They are easier to
take down without feeling too full... Example... cereals, milo, hot
chocolate... You need to put this into her: you need more energy to
study for your exams (or whatever she likes to do most). Or cook
for her... Make her feel guilty about wasting your efforts and
money...
The above are just some of my opinions...
If she starts to eat... she may get more fats initially because her
basal metabolic rate should have drastically slowed down... But
don't tell her this... Just bring her out for more
activities...