should i go for it or not?

sggirl07 SG

my ex bf has asked me if we should give it another try. should i go for it or not?

the reason he gave was, it couldnt work out the last time cos it was due to timing. months have passed.

despite the bad taste that break up had left in our mouths, and not to mention my fear of being hurt again, we still think that we are made for each other. should i give it another go?

CheekyCow SG

Do you want to give it another go?

Just be prepared for possible consequences, and of course, try not to go wrong in the same places again.

jojobeach SG

Before you give it an other chance.

Please list down the reason why it didn't work out the last time.
And why it should work out this time.

Get your ex to also list them down.

After both of you has the list.
Please sit down together and go through each other's list.

Discuss how you can improve and make this time round a successful one.

When one party is talking..
Do NOT be confrontational.
DO NOT interrupt.
DO NOT be defensive.
DO NOT try to justify your past actions.

Remember... you need to figure out what went wrong the last time. So you can make this time right.

After both of you are comfortable with this ... and has confidence about the future together.. Please.. give it another try.

eagle SG

I like this advice...

x2

de_middle SG

its good both parties wanna give it another shot & yes it's important to know & remember what went so worng the last time round.

Btw, dun expect an overnight change from your other half but notice that he is trying to change & accomodate you for the better....likewise for you.

All the best in your renewed lovelife Very Happy

kiss_my (_i_) SG

shi1 zhong1 bi4 you3 de2,
de2 zhong1 you4 you3 shi1...

zeny SG

I would like to say no but looking at what you have written, I could only say
that there is no point in advicing you. You have already made up your mind.

Idle_King SG

Why not? Go for it i say, just dun set your expectations too high up and like what jojo said:
"When one party is talking..
Do NOT be confrontational.
DO NOT interrupt.
DO NOT be defensive.
DO NOT try to justify your past actions. " Wink

rathcycle SG

last time is who initiate break up 1...
if its u.. then think properly..
if its him.. means he have changed for you...and he regretted his choice.

AndrewPKYap SG

"we still think that we are made for each other" Since you said "WE still think" then just go for it unless you have someone else to choose from. If not, if your choice is between being Single and trying with this person again, then try again.

acegem84 SG

Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
"we still think that we are made for each other" Since you said "[b]WE still think" then just go for it unless you have someone else to choose from. If not, if your choice is between being Single and trying with this person again, then try again.[/b]

ya lor agrees... if u tink he's gd n lucky enuff to have another chance by u den go for it lor ....

browniebaobao SG

it seems that u wana try again, but something is holding you back.. and that's fear..

hmm.. personally, i dun think 'gan qing ke yi cong lai'..

once break.. there's no turning back le..

ALW SG

Ask yourself these..

1. Do you still love him?

2. Will the same old problem arise again when you're back to him?

3. Are you prepared to face the consequences once again if the r/s failed you 1 more time.

4. Lastly.. do you think this r/s can last?

maskedangel SG

hey, if he still love u, and u still have the feelings for him, y not juz give it a go?

though things have obviously change, for better or worst, if u're meant for each other, den u're meant to be togehter, no matter wad.

Give urself and him a chance. Maybe it will work out this time?

All the best. Smile

ghirlhie SG

great advice.

and pray for your relationship to work out this time. Cool

Yunhaier SG

If you are asking if you should... chances are - you shouldn't.

Cheers