Meeting Your Ex

last SG · 2007-07-08T22:54:36+00:00

she's your ex. Why you keep carrying her in your heart? What she do with her life is her problem. You should be happy for her. Then you should worry about w...

de_middle SG

ur even afraid to see her, tell me how ur going to do what u wrote Rolling Eyes

The_Legend_Killer SG

But I always feel that I am giving her unconditional love. I accept who she is. But it seems like she cannot accept who I am.

The_Legend_Killer SG

I have been hearing rumours abt her. I am really nervous that the outcome will be back. The gathering is tonight. How? Just hours away only and I will know the verdict.

I can wish her happiness but I am a human. I do have feelings too. I will feel a little jealous if the outcome is bad.

I really dunno how i will react after tonight. God bless me.

nanren4ever SG

Just remember the times when u first meet her, prior to u feeling anything for her. Chat with her, ask her how's life etc..do not, if possible attempt to talk about the times when u two were together, because u most probably will cause an argument..

JUst be natural. Talk to her as if she was just any other friend.

The_Legend_Killer SG

I like your attitude. But then I just can't bring myself of hating her. We broke off because she cheated on me.

You seems to have an ex gf who likes to provoke u even after u breakup.

jojobeach SG

The legend Killer,

It seems your wound has not heal up yet.

Perhaps you should skip this gathering for now.
There will be other gatherings in the future.

Untill you get over her or when you go into another relationship.

It is better to give yourself more time before you face this ex of yours again.

The_Legend_Killer SG

Tru emails, sms or friends. What i can help i will help too.

The_Legend_Killer SG

How long will I have to wait for this gathering again? another year?

jojobeach SG

What is one year or two.. if it is how long it takes to mend your heart ?

Don't force yourself to face your ex when you are not ready to.

Gatherings is just ... a gathering.
You can always meet up your friends anytime you want.

ispyyy SG

Originally posted by thumbelina:

if she do really approach u, that is a big "IF", means that she is most likely not attached...

most likely not attached means it is worth it for TS to confirm the status from his ex lor (dig information from her) if he wants...

And she wants to noe about u ...

"wants to noe mah" means just ask questions like normal friends do... no meaning... that is y I say talk crap...

lol... think u interpret wrongly...
Anyway, those words are for TS...

The_Legend_Killer SG

Maybe I am finding excuses to meet her. Yet I know today's gathering, it will caue more pain.

Cool-gal SG

i didnt read all post, but i wan to tell TS. meet la, be more da fang.
its over anyway, stil can be frenz in future.

*bluee SG

Haiz... why so vexed?

Do watever u think its rite...

But...

1. dun pay attentation to her nia, keep ur eyes off her if possible

2. initiate a conversation with her and then try to invole other classmates on some general topics

3. dun fight back when classmates start teasing u... the more u argue, the more they wanna disturb (my assumption nia, u know ur classmates best)

Most imptly, dun bother abt wat others think...

jojobeach SG

If meeting up with her will bring you closure. So, go.

If meeting up with her will bring pain and rips your heart to pieces. Why do ?

ispyyy SG

As I say, u should face the music...
if u want to wait for another gathering, u will suffer even longer...
Be brave and accept the truth...
After this gathering, it maybe a closure for yr years of pain...

The verdict is there... It wont change for next year , next two years or next three years since u have broken up with her for quite some time...

AndrewPKYap SG

Imagination is always worse than the reality... as I have learnt time and again...

jojobeach SG

Facing the music when a wound is still raw.
Is like stabbing the open flesh with a straw.

Let the scar be a reminder of the past.
When the storm is over, you will see the sky.

There is a time for everything.
Why rush into an abyss knowing there is nothing there ?

It is neither courage nor noble act.
But folly ,when one throws himself at a stake.

boka SG

skip this gathering until one day u know u will be glad for whatever her pans are.
that's when u free yourself from all these pain.

ispyyy SG

Originally posted by ispyyy:
After this gathering, it maybe a closure for yr years of pain...

Anyway, u can search for the history of TS from the topics he created in AA b4... From there, u will noe...

smudgey SG

agreed, or if u really cannot deal right now, then don't go.

don't force urself to do something u are not ready to do.

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