Sometimes the in-laws take for granted that we have to give in.
When I try to avoid or is just doing my things like cleaning or
whatever, my MIL comes over and makes comments such that i like
cleaning so much therefore she is justified to leave everything for
me to clean up. Or when I come home late, she makes comments that I
have an affair outside and is enjoying myself. Then she also make
comments that I never take care of my husband and always give him
problem and make him come fetch me at work etc (I never asked my
husband and he volunteers when he feels like it). My MIL also
accuse me of trying to kill her with my cooking and now I don't
cook and she is angry I never take up cooking to help her out. When
I hide in my room, my MIL complains to my husband that I am
unfriendly and I have to keep my doors open but anyways even with
doors shut, she walks in on us and sometimes when we are in the
middle of something. Either way, I am fuked.
I try to put up. Some times, its just too much. I feel more
stressed at home. My husband is not appreciative that I had given
way and he said his whole family gave way to me. Then I got nothing
to say loh, I can only think I am difficult person. Sometimes I
think perhaps can move out on my own. Leave my husband with his
family. Sometimes, I think maybe if I fall out the window, then
everything settled. Its not easy.
