I dun mind him asking me about my whereabout, but of cos not the
kind that every hour also calls me up to ask, Where are you now?

For my family matters, I will tell him if I am ready to, but if I
am not ready to tell and he is forcing me to tell, then it is not
possessive, it is darn irritating.
As for net friends, I don't mind my dear asking and don't mind
telling also, because I have nothing to hide.