You tink it is very weird because that you never thought through
the issue.
Life can be very good without trust... meaning, for example, you
are my employee, I have no choice but to trust you to do the job
but at the same time I do not trust you and will make sure that
checks are in place so that you do not cause the whole business to
collapse by your actions and constant assessments are in place so
that you and I know that you are doing a good job.
Tell people your secret for what? Trust no one and if you trust
someone and they spill your secrets... you only have yourself to
blame... 
