I am, to say the least, disappointed. After all these months of
being there for her, going out of my way to help her, showing her
concern, always lending a listening ear,... she doesn't seem to
appreciate it.
For example, when I put my hand on her shoulder, she squirms. Or
when I sit close to her, she keeps and inch. This is disturbing, as
these subtle hints seem to say that she doesn't trust me? If that
were the case, she should not have allowed us to be in a
relationship in the first place. But everything else is fine.
It is tough for a guy to be in a relationship where there is hardly
even the slightest contact. The relationship feels cold. Why do
girls not understand this? And it is even harder for guys to
explain this to the girl.
What's the best step forward now?