You misunderstood what I wrote, I think....
The context I was talking about is that, physical incompatibility
can cause problems. That is not something people should avoid
considering. You get married to have sex, (not just and not only,
of course) to put it more crudely.
If one party have physical needs vastly more than their spouse...
that spells trouble down the line.
As for the particular post I made... I am not suggesting that the
girl is wild.
I am saying that while she is not willing to indulge in anything
physical now, at this stage of the relationship... (she believes in
maintaining pre-marital physical purity during courtship, for
example)... the situation might change when she is married.
She might turn out to be "an animal", "wild" in bed
after she is married...
How would anyone know unless you marry her and see for yourself?
You can have the opinion that she is so shy now, she would be like
that after marriage... people change... but you take the risk...
they might change when the circumstance change or they might NOT
change....
TS is "into" physical relationships (as many guys are) and the girl
is not so keen (as many girls are, not so keen).
I see people saying things like " u're not the man for her"
suggesting that TS is at fault... I am trying to go beyond
apportioning blame.
I am saying that one should not brush aside physical/sexual
incompatibility... it can be very serious and make or break a
marriage (can be, not absolute)
