when 1 loves another do dearly, they love with their heart, not
their bird. as such the thought of bedding her disgust 1.
however if all you can think is how to bed her, then you dont love
her. you lust her.
when 2 people in love come together, given the right time and
place, they make love.
when 1 lusts another, the bedding happens all the time, either in
fantasy, or verbally, seldom physically.
clearly, lusting for someone is the worst mistake 1 can make. just
imagine what happens after she or he ages and not be able to
perform.
love on the other hand, like good wine, taste better as it
ages.