difficult
he takes pride in his behaviour, its like his coat of arms ,take
that away from him and he may feel like a lesser man..
usually he is compensating for something less in his life, or maybe
he is just simply a fool
the reason i took interest in this thread, i saw many of a good man
just like this with his behavior , taken advantage by guys and
girls, stripped bare and end up as poor old man
at 38 , he might be too late to change but try your best if not ,
this will also drag you down financially.
you may still have to work at macdonalds, for this type of person
are always a bit gullible to friends call for help, investments and
other scams(my daughter is very sick pls lend me whatever you
have)
and you might have to cover that debt.
trust me i seen many of this type of person - its kind a like the
titanic...
you have to force him to change...
he thinks its cool
but actually he is just a fool