Think TS can sumarise his long essay into few words...
That is "AA should be considerate and understanding when giving
advice."
Anyway, from TS essay, I can also ask every1 in AA this question
:
"Who thinks that he or she is a sucessful AA?"
"Who thinks that he or she can fully 100% understand the writer of
that thread?"
"Who thinks that his or her advice can 100% help the writer of that
thread?"
"Who thinks that AA is not a human being?"
Actually, it is the thought from the AA that counts. I feel that
most people's ,that choose to post in AA, intention is really wants
to help. Be it from the writer's point of view, story's 2rd party's
point of view, story's 3rd party's point of view or AA's shared
experience, all these advice can really widen the writer's narrow
or dim view of his or her situation. As what most of us know, the
decision is still up to the writer. However, the many different
aspect of advice is like many helping hands surround the writer in
his or her darkness.
Anyway, AA is also human being. Sometimes, AA , himself or herself,
will also gets to emotional stir and thus forgetting to be
considerate and understanding. Then, let the rest of the AA give a
gentle reminder lor...