no nid so polite one leh... makes me 
If you learn the lesson well, you will not only be happy, you
should be very successful in your relationships, career and
money-wise. "Should be" and not definitely "will be" because you
need a certain amount of "luck" and "opportunities" in life as
well.
Like, if you are born in a rich family, then the chances are that
you will be rich.
Like if you are born a very healthy person, and you meet with an
accident that leaves you paraplegic...
Nevertheless, life gives each one of us opportunities and if we
grab them and handle them well, we will do well in life.
The most important thing is to be able to see/know reality.
Some people live life according to beliefs and that is good (if
only it is the right beliefs) but even then, it is not as good as
living life IN REALITY.
so far so good? any questions?