Take for example when people is scolding, lecturing, giving
advice on your future or studies and etc. You are determined to do
it and the spirit inside you at that point of time is running
high.
But after a while, once you are determined to make a change, you
will lose the interest and don't feel like accomplishing it.
If not another case, you will feel so down or so sad when something
bad affected you directly or indirectly and people will comfort you
or giving you courage. But to you, this shows they are concern for
you but they dunno how one is feeling, so they feel all those
console is useless unless one is about to understand them very
well. (this kind of situation not only happen in me but a few of my
friends too where I will go and read their blog and they will post
this kind of post)
But once you did something good, you will feel cheerful immediately
and keeping helping out people by consoling them or whatever... if
not you will feel bad about it by being calm and nice and telling
them on what to do and etc...
I experienced it.
How about the rest? 
