Originally posted by Marco_Simone:
[b]She is pretty quiet and does not joke as much as she is
online.
I tried to be humorous-I crack the same type of
jokes as I do online and she seemed amused but face to
face,she did not as entertained.
The problem is she finds a few of my jokes corny/lame but she does
not give me this impression when we chat online.
Well,at least I did make her laugh a number of times and there was
a sustained block of conversation where we were teasing each
other...and I thought "hell yeah,we we are finally getting
somewhere"...but hell no,we started to be quiet again
thereafter...(anyway,that was really fun man!the teasing
part)
I also found out we dont have that many similar
interests.
I am quite an outdoors
person while she told me she dont like to
sweat...
I think I am the type of person who prefer to do things together
and talk rather than sit face to face over a cuppa at
Starbucks...[/b]
Analysed:
She is a quiet and more introvert kind
you are more extrovert
problem:
both have dif interest
good point:
u 2 can tease each other
SOlutioN:
Engage in a topic that she likes, slowly move on to another topic,
then make her happy, do it often.... then she might be feeling
closer to u, becos introvert speaks to ppl whom they are closer to,
so, be close to her, she will feel contented