Low self esteem??? hmmm... maybe... but first of all, need to
get yr this feeling correct... do u wonder y people can crack jokes
and every1 laugh but when u crack and every1 ignore? do u wonder y
some people ignore u while they treat other people better?
if that is the feeling, then, below is probably the advice :
U need to learn to be natural... to be yr ownself---> Another
words behave upon yr own personality... Let people understand yr
personality...
For example :
In SGforum bar, do u expect people to talk sense ?
In SGforum chit chat, do u expect all people to be serious ?
In SGforum AA, do u expect the TS to joking ?
Each different topic has a different characteristics and agenda.
And we, SGFers noe these and usually tend to reply differently
depends on topics...
Similarly :
If he is a joker type... when he speaks, every1's mind will switch
to joking mode... if a person is a serious type... when he speaks,
every1's mind will switch to serious mode... if a person is talk
crap type... when he speaks, every1 will reply crap...
As u experience more, u will be able to switch many different kinds
of personalities... But the more different kinds of personalities
that u can switch, the more lonely u will become... ><
Anyway, for a head start, learn to do things that u enjoy... Let
people understand u but dont let people confuse on yr
personality...
