Non-committal , as in f buddy ?
I think you already know the answer lor.
Do you really want such irresponsible guy to be your bf ?
Are you sure you are his one and only no string attached gf ?
Seriously, what are you expecting out of this kind of person?
A person will not all of a sudden becomes willing to commit just
because you ask him where you stand.
Role play :
You : Erm.. where do I stand in your heart ?
him : hmmmm..... what do you mean ?
you : I mean ... am I your girlfriend ?
him : girlfriend ?... hmmm why do you ask ?
you : well.... I want to be your gf.
him : OK... from today onwards, you will be my official
girlfriend.
you: yay... sob.. sob..... I'm so glad.
him : ok.. gota run . I need to go meet the other unofficial
girlfriend.....