Looking at your post I just think its kind of funny, you're
married, you dun get to see each other that much becos u work nite
shifts but during your off days instead of spending quality time
with your husband you choose to go travelling with your friends. If
its once in awhile its ok but seems like you're doing it
everytime.
I believe that when we get married the so call "Own Time" is not as
important as "Family Time". Married life is about spending the rest
of your life with your partner, if your own time is so important to
you, then you should not get married in the first place. Put
yourself in his shoes for a change, ask yourself this question,
will you feel happy if he is doing the same thing to you ?
And whats this deal about not leting your husband know any of your
friends ? Are you ashame to be married to him ? If not then why
won't you let him go out with you and your friends.
