Love getting stale

browniebaobao SG

i will look at it differently.

the r/s is becoming stabilised now..

xi shui chang liu type also good.

mistyblue SG

Sigh... Cool Good luck

CannyOng SG

Instead of feeling loss and sad abt the lack of excitement. Why not u start to think of things to do bring in new excitement? I am sad to say that in these kind of things,guy shall take the lead! Try some sports and romantic places,I believe the feeling for yr ger will be as good as newly know…

NYPD^blue SG

i am a undergrad, and she is working...

thing is she work shift hrs....most of e times, she is too tired to go out

she's realli gd to me la, she noes her shift hrs is quite bad for our relationship, she 's looking for a new job liaox

well, c how it goes la

de_middle SG

that's nice.......excitement.........check if time permits 1st Very Happy

rainee SG

there will come a time when the rs will become stable and for some people, they think that it has become dull compared to when they first dating...

The excitement will still be there at times, but I have come to love the stability, the routine, the knowledge that there is a special person who will be there for me, the peacefulness, able to feel comfortable even when there is silence...

Love is not all about fireworks everyday...try something out of routine once in a while but to expect it to be "exciting" every single day after a few years of being together is a bit unrealistic...

sillyme SG

The spark of a new relationship seems so exciting and sweet. After awhile, you get to know each other and you get into a routine of things. And then you realise that there is "less excitement".

If you think you have lost it, then all you need to do is to find it! Plan something out of your routine. Or just do something you don't normally do. Surprise her!

Sparks don't happen by doing nothing. You have to make it happen Smile

That said, what really counts is the love you have one another. If both of you are comfortable with a "unexciting" relationship, just let it be lor.

Mid9Sun SG

Sometimes u can just quietly sit one corner and observe her doing her stuff (ie, packing, ironing, doing schoolwork etc etc).

Look at how she flicks her hair, or that frown on her face when she working out a difficult homework, etc

You will feel why is she so special that you made u go after her in the 1st place and it your heart melts again.

Remember..excitement is like fire....and you both are the fuel for it.

Good luck

TinySue SG

How old are you? If you are still in your teens, forget it. It's just puppy love. If you are in your early twenties, you are just experiencing the phase of life going through the motion whereby everyone is enjoying the same thing like you - partor with no real inkling of having a permanent relationship that would eventually lead to marriage.

True love doesn't always need excitement. True love can be just two person sitting at home over a game of chess or just sitting down and doing completely nothing at all.

So don't think yours can qualify as 'love' yet.

rainee SG

agreed Mr. Green

I have always loved this phrase,"The closest friends can sit together in silence, and feel perfectly comfortable."

Very Happy

yihao93 SG

a small surprise here and there might be good...
like... fetching her to and from work w/o tell her?
if u alwats been doin that give a excuse 1st? Rolling Eyes

anhydrouscoppersulphate SG

simi excitement. create 3rd party to join chase ar Laughing

CannyOng SG

Not everybody can do that. If u do it often,I doubt u can take it!

I suggest plan a holiday trip with yr gf,see whether she can take leave anot since she is so tiring working. Must take a rest ma... Mr. Green

yihao93 SG

if i could, i would enjoy doin that, even everyday, cause it is
a blessing juz to ahve her? Wink

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