rainee SG You should have called her, asking someone out for the first time through SMS doesn't sound that sincere to me Maybe by tonight if she still hasnt replied, give her a call, to confirm her decision. If she is hesitant, tell her it is okie if she rejects or if she has something else to do, can always go next time I think first date better to do a study date, ask her to go out to McD and study together with you or have a homework session together in your school library Another thing to add: a girl who truly loves you would not be so bothered with your looks. First thing that attracts a girl is not looks, it is more like of your personality and confidence level. So just be yourself
w33kphail SG maybe i’ll message her that tmr afternoon. cos maybe she still hasnt read the message yet yeah.. sometimes she takes quite long to reply.so yeah.
rainee SG You are going out with her tomorrow right? Better not to message her so late, cos she would need sometime to prepare for the date. And if you ask her so late, she might have already planned her activities for the day. Call her up tonight...the latest
ifish SG ok.. give her a call. talk crap for awhile or talk about sch work.. then after both of u very very high and u pretty much pretty comfy with her on the phone already.. ask her about the date. good luck!
w33kphail SG she's not the type who will talk long long one and she's the rather serious type you know. haha. i wanna use the opportunity tmr night if i get to go out with her to find out more about her. cos we don't message each other a lot.(her phone is on pre-paid sim card.) she probably doesnt like me yet but i hope she gives me a chance. i think its kinda obvious to her that i like her already.
ifish SG plan B.. pretend u never msg her. Ignore her this holiday (even if both of you do meet up in sch for whatever activity). try again in a mth time.
ifish SG ya.. only talk to her when necessary. let her feel the change abit. unless.. you are not even close to her in the first place.
w33kphail SG yeah i am not really close to her. i find it really really tough to talk to her via sms cos she's on prepaid sim card. she hardly logs on to msn as well. that's why i am asking her out tomorrow night to get to know her better. but there isn't any reply YET.
rainee SG Just give her a call. Said since she hasnt replied to you and the outing is tomorrow, you would like to know what's her plan so that you can plan ahead of time.
LordIcarus SG nah, don’t do that. giving up is another thing altogether, what you’re doing now is showing her you’re a gentleman, not pressing her. (: so next time, don’t ask her out so directly. try the studying bit.
w33kphail SG i have asked her before about studying together like earlier this month. she said she cannot study with people probably because she gets easily distracted? oh well. hmm yea LordIcarus, what you said about the gentleman part is true. =) i will wait till like 10 tonight before i message her. thanks alot!
w33kphail SG oh well, didnt needa call her. she replied.but it was a negative response. she said she was too busy. c'mon man, its just a saturday night. sigh. dunno whether this is an excuse or not. sian.
