I need serious help~

last SG · 2007-06-05T23:00:44+00:00

Dear TS, I just hope you'd learn from your experience. It looks like TS has resolved her problem so I will close this thread.

karma-preneur SG

I'm now going Eighteen and had regular sex with my boyfriend.

I hope you are very rich or your boyfriend is very responsible.

I counted the longest period was 40days, it's now the 35th day.

Sounds like fun.

My boyfriend and I is not ready to have baby and get married.

Arber then?

Althought it could be late period, but I'm kind of worried.

Because you feel that this could be your last warning?

My parents don't know about my one year plus relationship with this guy, but his parents knows.

So you feel quite confident of your relationship with him?

My parents are of the older generation and might not accept this. I'm so so worried about it. Help?!

What is your boyfriend calibre? If you are really pregnant go counselling then with your boyfriend then. Neutral

sgGirlx SG

I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?

hiphop2009 SG

vomit?

giddy?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

These are few good links which can help you.

http://www.womens-health-questions.com/pregnancysymptoms.html

http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy-symptoms

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102

http://pregnancy.about.com/

Darkness_hacker99 SG

1) Did the test-kit uses blood or urine to test for pregnancy? Did you read wrongly?

2) Did you follow the instruction? Check the expiry date of the test-kit?

3) Did you wait for a few minutes after dripping the urine/blood onto the test kit?

If you tested it today and it showed a negative result, then you should wait for another 2 or 3 days before testing it again.

Reasons why it show negaive reading could be

- Test kit not sensitive enough
- The chemical HCG is not noticeable enough for the kit.

zeny SG

No point in saying so much
do the SOP then

1) Check kit if negative then ok

2) If still worry go doc to check

My question is even this time it turns out to be negative what will happen to the next time? Sex without protection is a time bomb. You can run from it this time but what about later?

Is your life.

jojobeach SG

Sometimes test kits may give you false negative results.

The test kit rely on the trace hormone in your urine.
If there is not enough hormone to react with the chemical it will not show as positive.

I suggest you go to a obstetrician/gynecologist to confirm this.
There is nothing to be ashamed about.
They will not report you to the police or tell your parent.

The ob/gyn will probably do a ultrasound scan or perhaps a blood test to confirm if pregnancy is present.

If you are not pregnant, please talk to the ob/gyn about contraceptives.
You will be surprised how many options you have other than condoms.

But remember that condoms can help prevent STD ( Sexually transmitted diseases).
Oral or intrauterine contraceptives will not prevent STD.

Symptoms of pregnancy differs with many people.
Some experience it, some don't.
So do not base your judgment on symptoms.

Please do not delay the visit to doc any longer.

furb SG

err... If I'm not mistaken, if a girl is above 16, she is at legal for sex. I remember hearing it in TV shows and in school.

Ok to back it up, I did some searching. According to this website - http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp

Under (I. Ages for legal purposes)

Age of consent for sexual activity

The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years.

Bad news is no rotan man for that guy cause the guy have consent of the girl.

Good news is you can get married when both parties reached 18, however this is not an ideal option.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Originally posted by furb:

err... If I'm not mistaken, if a girl is above 16, she is at legal for sex. I remember hearing it in TV shows and in school.

Ok to back it up, I did some searching. According to this website - http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp

[b]Under (I. Ages for legal purposes)

Age of consent for sexual activity

The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years.

Bad news is no rotan man for that guy cause the guy have consent of the girl.

Good news is you can get married when both parties reached 18, however this is not an ideal option.
[/b]

Surprised Why 16?? Wah,I key in the wrong infor into enter into my brain Crying or Very sad .. I'd always thought is 18.

jojobeach SG

Seriously, whoever came up with this law has his/her head screwed on wrong.

Pregnancy will not wait 2 years.
The law plays a part in pushing abortion rates up.

Shanks23 SG

On the first place if you and your bf not ready to have a baby what the hell you involved in sex??If you really want to have sex At least use a condom [email protected]@

Anyway good luck private hospital abortion fees is like 500bucks.. Very Happy But thats too cruel...-.-'''

Good luck~~Nobody can help you on this..

Darkness_hacker99 SG

90% must be the PAPies.. Laughing Mad

sgGirlx SG

any recommanded pregnancy kits? how much will a check cost?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I have neither visited a gyn or bought a test-kit before. Neutral

FBI SG

go do a test la.. down here say so mcuh also no use

Quiet Guy SG

dont waste money buying test kit since pass so many days liao, either go to doc or just live on.

jojobeach SG

Girl,
Please pick up a phone and call one clinic.
ASK them. They will let you know and make an appointment .

sgGirlx SG

My period came today…

da-cheese-freakk SG

who told you to have unprotected sex with your boyfriend when you VERY WELL knew the consequences?

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EDIT:
okay, sorry, I was being ... yeah.
but really, I'm not deleting what I wrote 'cause I really DO believe that you SHOULD learn.
dude, you're 18. do you really want a puny 14-year-old to tell you what to do?
you're lucky that you arent pregnant.
if you're going to go around doing those kinds of things, why don't you warn your parents first before you get pregnant?
then, maybe, when it comes, they will be prepared for it.
really.

and if you really DID get pregnant, you could always just have the child and put it up for adoption ... =S. dunno.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

sgGirlx ar.. You see so many people replied this thread, this shows that many people are concern about you.

Let this be a lesson leant ok?

If you and your bf doesn't have any plans for baby, then practice safe-sex next time.

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