Originally posted by curiousOrange:
Now that you have calmed down...
Here's a bit of bad news for you.
Read what she said above.
I believe the pressure from her parents is real.
[b]But she knows that pressure is not enough to hinder the
relationship...that is, if she really want to be with you.
She is looking for something significant, something so special that
she will not mind making a bit of sacrifice to pursue the
relationship.
But her relationship with you has not given her that feeling.
That's what she meant when she said she is selfish.
She couldn't make the sacrifice because what the two of you have
right now, is not significant enough.
She is having second thoughts about the relationship.
Not because of the pressure.
But due to what she came to realise from the
pressure.
I just want you to be mentally prepared.
Leave her alone so that she can focus on her exams, let her sort
out her thoughts and where you stand.
After the exams, the ball is in her hands.
You should think about what attracted her to you in the
first place and try to rekindle that.
Take care.[/b]
agreed totally. dats wad happens when u n her's age gap are
rather wide (in my opinion.)
17 years old, well, is she studying in a junior college or
polytechnic or sec sch? if she is studying in sec sch or JC, it
might probably be the crucial part of her life (A level, O level).
u could leave her alone to study for her exams, while u can send
sms to her to just encourage her.
hmm, her parents doesnt noe abt u two? probably her parents are
strict with respect to having a relationship at her age. true, for
some parents, they think that 16 or 17 years old is mature enough
to have a bf or gf, but not every parents will think this way. give
her sometime and some space. she might be pressured and do not know
how to tackle it.
=)
