student-teacher relationship

soulwinner SG

I do date my lecturer or teacher sometime.. but i don’t fancy them…

boka SG

and that teacher is still single after so many years,after u gotta a job upon completion of NS?

boka SG

I'm not intrested wheather u have the hots for them or not.

fireball777 SG

Yes. We were together even before I graduate from university. I must say chasing after her was definitely not plain sailing. She rejected me many, many times, because she always cannot overcome the fact that I was her student.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I am a polytechnic student and my institution have no lecturers.. Laughing

smudgey SG

put your own feelings aside, and think about her.

do you know that she can be fired for having any kinda relationship outside the normal teacher-student relationship with you?!

don't be selfish

smudgey SG

some how i do not like your terms.

trust me if they are looking to "get off the shelves asap" they won't even look your way.

1) you cant provide for them
2) you are not at the age for serious marriage commitment

in other words, you will not be the 'final' guy.

dcx SG

Don't understand if you're really mature or not....texts from you may seems that you're trying hard to convince ppl that you're mature enough...but i feel not....

Based on your personal "feel" & thoughts to conclude girls around the age of 18 are playing hard to get?
You're currently comparing girls aged 18yrs old with a woman aged >25+yrs old? Comparing a small plant to a full grown tree (Small plant doesn't have much branches or leaves as compared with trees, in general). Oh please....

Also, how can you not thought of how your lecturer think or feel?
Based on your CURRENT situation/age/vision, what commitment can you give/promise to her?

Are you finacially stable enough to provide her stability? Be realistic

Most important thing to a woman of aged >25+, Youth.

In short, if i'm a female of aged 25+ above, i wouldn't wanna take the risk..don't have many 2~3yrs to waste....who knows in the future you might fall in love with a girl who's 25yrs? By then, your lecturer will be 30+?

Laughing

boka SG

female rely heavily on their biological clock and once they hit a certain age,they know they cannot afford to have flings.
we all lose our youth by time and for gals,youth is one crucial aspect which they rely on to let lose their charm.

The fact that u question my finacial background and stability shows that you are not understanding my statement of "getting off the shelve Asap" because this statement was meant to be directed at my/guys choice of "why older ladies tend to be serious buisness".

Instead u phrase it as though the lady is doing the selecting and you giving me the 101 reasons why a older lady would never pick a younger guy.
Look i'm refering to a frame where the guy does the selection.

We don't have to thread into finacial area because we're discussing controversial issue as to why it is NATURALLY A SIN for YOUNGER GUYS TO DATE OLDER GALS.

Or

Are u putting this entire issue into the CONTROVERSIAL site whereby Student-teacher relationship is INAPPROPIATE.

Which are u speaking off?

dcx SG

Oh...right....i'm actually off from your meaning of student-teacher r/s?....okok....

Alright...go ahead & woo your teacher...good luck to you! Laughing

boka SG

u never change

smudgey SG

well the way you phrase it seem to mean that you are attracted to these women because:

1) you think that their time is running out hence they are not picky
2) you think that their afraid of being "left on the shelf" hence they are not picky
3) you think that since they are older and somewhat desperate, hence they are not picky

so then they will pick you?

hmmm

you are wrong.

Dead wrong.

it is precisely when a woman is searching for a lifetime partner that she will think twice even 3-4 times before even considering a boy your age.

u are

1) not financially able to support her.
2) not likely to settle down (marriage) in the near future.
3) not matured enough
4) not stable enough...

and in the case of student-teacher relationships,

her career, which she stands to lose!
public rejection if the relationship goes public

and the list goes on...

if you are going after 25-30 yr old ladies just because u THINK they are easier to woo, don't hold your breath. i wish you all the best.

boka SG

Well them not monkeying around is one of the best reason but thats not the focus.
I like older ladies and there's no true existence of any reason as to why so.

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