Originally posted by mikki:
Gee....Thanks for the advices.
I did visit the restaurant's website but it did not state the
closing time. And when i called the restaurant to make
reservations,i don't know was it miscommunication or what,the staff
only replied,"can eat till very late." So i conveyed this to A.
Ok,now i have to admit,i should have asked "eat till very late"
means what time. My fault here.
I don't think i will apologise(and i know neither will she),cause
in fact after A and B finished the conversation,i was a bit pissed
off at A(i will say why later)and contemplated smsing her to sort
of "scold" her for keeping us waiting. (Btw,we decided to wait for
her as it would be awkward for her to eat alone while we already
finished our food. And,she did NOT ask us to start eating first. We
did have some appetizers though.) However,i did not want to kick
off another quarrel again as we had some misunderstandings
recently. And we have been talking abt going overseas for tour
too,so it's bad to quarrel at this time. So,in the end i did not
sms her. Who would know that she was the one to start a quarrel
first?
As to why i was pissed off,that's because this was the 2nd time she
did not inform me earlier that she was preoccupied with stuff. Not
long ago,she was the one who asked me out [b]at the last
minute and wanted me to reach the destination in half an
hr. I told her to give me time to prepare since i was not ready to
leave home. Half an hr later,i was ready and called her hp to see
where she was,so that we could meet,but she did not pick up the
phone! I called several times within the next half an hr but to no
avail. Finally,45mins after the previously scheduled time,she
called me and said that she was talking to someone,so she could not
pick up the phone. How could she? I do understand that she was busy
talking and it might be something impt. But she knew that she had
already asked me out and was expecting me,since she knew she would
be held up,why couldn't she just ask the person to excuse her while
she picked up my call? She had already asked me to go to that
destination and what if,at the last minute,she could not come? Or
would be very late? Wouldn't she make me go there or wait there or
nothing?
I think i will just let yesterday's matter cool by
itself......after all,we still have to settle the tour stuff.
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Hmm... ok, but do remember to talk to her. You may never know if
she is one who remembers and harbours contempt so she may bring
this matter out and use as a weapon.
