she broke up with me

last SG · 2007-04-27T01:20:53+00:00

Can't you see? It's a women's intinct and characterisics to give you such stuff when things are not the same as what they feel as before. And you can't do a...

royroy85 SG

being with my gf for 2 yrs plus plus

suddenly, she say she wanted to break up, saying her feeling is no longer the same as before

we had not spend much time together for a month i think

she also mention that she is now working and studying part time, doesn't want to have the extra commitment.
she also ask me to give her some time..

what the.. after 2 years, than she say that...

i wonder what went wrong.. we were so alright a week ago when we were out and having fun

i'm at a lost, felt like a zombie since she mention that we should break up..
how much time should i give... 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year, 2 year...

gigabyte14 SG

one hour.

get over it chop chop.

Yunhaier SG

/me pat pat.

Cheers

zeny SG

want to be a good guy or bad guy?

cheekycheng SG

personally when ppl say give them timear, wait for u ar, all rubbish... just being selfish... while ure waiting in agony, they dun seem to be affected by it all... i suggest u forget this n move on...

gd luck

zheshi SG

Email to you to propose a break-up. That something new.

Dun need wait la, she dun seem reasonable too, telling break up over email..

mhcampboy SG

email siaa.. Laughing

next time she wanna patch up with you, tell her to use snail mail.. Surprised

popikachu SG

ask her how much time should you give her...

or ask her that when you need to wait for her til? which exam over? or after all study? after As,Diplona or Degree?

Ito_^ SG

how come she work part time u oso dun noe one?

how come she muz email u instead of call or sms or in person or snail mail? Confused

blahshit SG

wah.. use e-mail 1 sia.. new to me.. haha..

but really la.. if u know she's saying the truth, and u love her a lot, u should give her some time to work things out..

LazerLordz SG

smells like an LDR.

NuTcRaCk SG

i tink u shld just move on...

as u said everythin was fine when u 2 meet up last week...
what was goin thru her mind was evaluation of u,
whether her feelings towards u were the same or whether she has lost it...

so i guess she has lost her feelings towards u.

i tink she used email as an indirect way of breakin up cos she doesn't wana hear u upset or get an immediate upset reply from sms.
in a way...
she's scared to know how u felt... i tink...

my advice is just move on...
for me i avoid thinkin...
occupy myself...

so...
u gotta find someways to move on...

take care...
Mr. Green

acegem84 SG

life's twisted, take care man. remember - once loved, nvr forgotten. dnt gif up hope. will find ya better half =]

^mR.yellow^86 SG

be strong.
*pat pat

BrUtUs SG

since she say no longer love u then face it lo... whether she had fallen for another it dun matter cos her heart is not here... now is time for u to go rehab n regain urself back without her in ur life..

soulwinner SG

Cheer up...

I have been rejected by gal too many time...

Chris1988 SG

something ain't right here. why tell you through email? not by phone or face to face? maybe she's feeling some guilt in her as well.

oh wells maybe i'm over-sensitive.
anyways the longer you wait, the longer your agony. and if one day after waiting for so long she decided to patch. you might or might not patch after all the torment she put you through.

good luck Wink

jojobeach SG

She broke up with you through email is because she also don't dare to face you directly to initiate the breakup. Very common in our X-generation.
Text messages is the typical way people of our times communicate difficult emotional messages.

It seems she is over you. So please don't hold your breath waiting for her to change her mind.

Ask yourself this first.
Since she no longer love you. Will you still want someone who don't "really" love you , to be your girlfriend ???
Do you want to hold her back just for your sake ?

Typically when a relationship changes after a certain period, there is actually nothing wrong with the people involve. It's just that the needs of either one or both party has changed as time pass. So don't beat yourself up trying to figure out what went wrong.

Good luck to your next better partner.

Mid9Sun SG

how come u get rejected by gals too many time...???? Shocked Shocked

Simple_Bear SG

TS,

You should move on and find another one...

Good Luck dude...

Mr. Green