Come in have a look.......and advice

viciouskitty74 SG

Wrong forum.

But heck...heres the advice.

Clean up your room!

Ensure that there is privacy.

1) your room and your room alone.
2) Curtains on the windows.
3) Comfy twin bed at least with no clutters on it.
4) Easy access to the bathroom w/o having to run into the parents.
5) Easy access to drinking water if either party gets thirsty.
6) Clean floors, clean bed. No funny smells or dustballs.
7) At least a PC that can play vids for watching dvds lah, or a radio that can masked the heavy breathing sounds and screaming.
Cool Comfortable temperature. Make sure its cool so its right enough excuse to cuddle in bed.

mochou SG

maybe you should find out what's the problem first.

Is it time?
The two of you seldom have the chance to be stay home together, she always need to OT and come home late?
If the two of you have a lot of time being alone together at home, but she rather sit there watch TV than to have sex with you, than the problem is not about "time".

Enviornment?
Are you at the stage that not married, but she stay at house, only go back her home once in a while? If yes, do you have siblings? Your parents likes to knock your door every now and then?

You didnt do your part?
Not saying that you sucks in sex, pls dont misunderstand me. Some girls like it slow, you have to talk to her for a while, hugs + sweet talk, then starting kissing, then start to "browse" inside her clothes, then take of her clothes, then some foreplay, then you can have sex with her...... Dont expect you just say "darling, let's have sex" and she then said OK and take off her clothes. Some girls cant accept it. Dont initiate sex by simply saying you want it.

If she's not in the mood, try to change her mood.
Treat her better, make her loves you more. Play some slow music. Dim lights. Try possible ways to make her go into romance mood.

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